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| Title: whAt lOv3 reAlLy iS...
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and
is your voice caught within your chest?? -It
isn't love, it's LIKE.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of
her/him -
It isn't love, it's LUST.
Are you proud, and eager to show her/him off?? -
It isn't love, it's LUCK.
Do you want her because you know she's/he's
there?? -
It isn't love, it's LONELINESS.
Are you with her/him because it's what everyone
wants??
It isn't love, it?s LOYALTY.
Are you with her because she/he kissed you, or
held your hand?
It isn't love, it's LOW CONFIDENCE.
Do you stay for her/him confessions of love,
because you don't want to hurt her/him?
It isn't love, it's PITY.
Do you belong to her/him because the sight of
her/him makes your heart skip a beat??
It isn't love, it's INFATUATION.
Do you pardon her faults because you care about
her/him?
It isn't love, it's FRIENDSHIP.
Do you tell her/him every day she is the only
one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a LIE.
Are you willing to give up all of your favorite
things for her sake?
It isn't love, it's CHARITY.
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Does your heart ache and break when she's sad?
Then it's LOVE.
Do you cry for her/his pain, even when
she's/he's strong?
Then it's LOVE.
Do her/his eyes see your true heart, and touch
your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's LOVE.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible
mix of pain and relation pulls you close and
holds you to her/him?
Then it's LOVE.
Do you accept her/his faults because it's a part
of who she/he is?
Then it's LOVE.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with
her/him faithfully without regret??
Then it's LOVE.
Would you give her/him your heart, your life,
your death??
Then it's LOVE.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why
do we love?
Why is it all we search for in life? This pain,
this agony? Why is it
all we long for? This torture, this powerful
death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is
such an addictive thing that even people who are
not having it wish to experience it and share it with
others as well.
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ahahaha... so cute | | |
| I wanna tell you how much I love you, but I¡¯m just too shy
The hurt of rejection would be too much for me, so I¡¯m afraid to even try
I¡¯ve loved you for so long you could say right from the start
I love you with all my soul but I¡¯m just so afraid of a broken heart
I wish that you would just notice me and take my hand
I wouldn¡¯t be so shy and afraid because I would know you love me then
But how would you notice me if my love can¡¯t and won¡¯t show
My love for you will always be a secret
And the way you really feel ¡®bout me, well I guess I¡¯ll never know¡¦
I love you
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| Here is a story wish to share with the readers.
There is one girl, with the enthusiastic encouragement by the colleague, she accepted one of the male colleague who going after her. Therefore the love journey begun.
Somehow, the girl¡¯s feeling started to fade as time goes by, she started to wonder the feeling toward the guy is it love or not. Time pass they rarely contact and at last they break off.
After that, this girl get known to another guy, this guy also going after this girl enthusiastically and she accepted him but this relationship only last for 2 years. The girl can merely has any feeling toward the guy¡¯s love.
After a period of time, this girl start to notice on of this guy, she has the kind of excitement which wants to be with him, therefore she go and get known to this guys initiatively, and become friends. Eventually this two becomes lovers.
In this third relationship, she realized that she never cares about a person that much, she cares about her past, she cares about her colleague or the relationship with her female friends, her lifestyle and family etc¡¦., she hope they care about him as how she does. She wondered, suppose this is the feeling of true love?
At last they married, she is not fulfilled by the love the husband given, she felt that the love she given didn¡¯t get 100% in return then she started to regret.
In this story, the girl¡¯s first and second boy friends are the one who loves her. However the husband is the one she loves.
Choose the one that loves her, she is not sure whether she loves them or not, even thou they miss each other but only up to certain level, she wont argue about each other¡¯s stuff. It is just plain generosity or should consider not concern at all¡¦.
She found out that, the one she had decide to have family with, she realize that she had became selfish, she minds on everything, since she loves him , she wish she can control him, wants everything to be on her way.
She realized to love a person makes her unhappy. Yet when she has been loved, she didn¡¯t concern much on that particular person.
She had been loved before, the girl realized, to love a person without obtaining the same level of love in return, the party who gives love will become imbalance, she is an example, the husband do not follow as how she wants makes her fall, feeling that she and her husband lost the balance.
Still remember this girl said, when she love a person, she loves him more than he does. But when he loves her more, she felt suffocated(or pressured), she cant find the point which is balance between their relationship. Therefore she decided to give up to end the relationship.
Very often, we cant get 100% return for what we give, one will feels imbalance on the path of love, start to feel bad and sad, cant think logically for relationship problems. This Is the time the relationship reached its limit.
While in a relationship, if you don¡¯t want the person who loves you, loving you too much, makes you felt the pressure, or cant return as much as the opposite party given. Therefore do not request for the one you love does as well.
No matter how you choose; the one you love or the one loves you, as long as you love each other, obtain the balance in between. Eventually the relationship will be fine and do not need to worry about decision between the one you love and the one love you . Am I right?
"Itulah cinta, di saat kita merasa cinta itu telah beransur-ansur hilang dari hati kita kerana kita merasa dia tidak dapat memberikan cinta dalam "kewujudan" yang kita inginkan, maka cinta itu telah hadir dalam "kewujudan" yang tidak pernah kita bayangkan sebelum ini" -sepet- | | |
| I couldnt say "dont get lost",
Even love without hope exists.
The sad lookin smile shook me up,
So i swept away the scary, lonely good-bye.
Even passion hurts,
It's like chasing after a piece of eternity.
You were the sky,
You were my dreams,
Just like in my burning past.
Transform it into an unforgettable memory and decorate your heart with it.
Searching for my life,
We will meet again.
I loved those trasparent eyes, so for now...
We'll walk our separate paths, restarting.
Just a lil something i thought off... dun ask me how... just did... feels kinda sad now.... -runs off somewhere on my own- | | |
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